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Habit friction map

Most failed habits aren't failures of willpower — they're failures of design. Walk through every step from waking up to doing the habit, mark each friction point, and pick the one you'll remove this week.

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When to use this

  • You've tried to build a daily habit and lost it within a fortnight.
  • You suspect the failure is in the steps between cue and action, not willpower.
  • Before starting a new habit — to surface the friction you'll hit on day three.

How to complete it

  • Pick one habit. Not five. The single biggest one you've been trying to install.
  • Walk the full sequence from cue to action; write every step and the seconds it adds. Phone in another room is a step. Trainers in the cupboard is a step.
  • Mark the one removable friction with the highest cost-per-second. Remove it this week before adding any new habits.

Common mistakes

  • Listing the habit's benefits instead of the steps between cue and action.
  • Mapping friction for a habit you don't actually want — produces a tidy worksheet that changes nothing.
  • Trying to remove every friction at once instead of the single highest-leverage one.

Habit friction map

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The habit you're building (one habit, not five).

The cue you're anchoring it to.

An existing daily routine. Not “in the morning” — “after I pour my coffee.”

Friction map — every step between cue and habit.

List each step + the seconds it adds. Be honest. Phone charged? Trainers where? Bookmark loaded? Computer locked? Each adds activation energy.

StepSecRemovable?

The one friction you'll remove this week.

How you'll remove it (specifically).