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Relationship repair script builder

Draft a script for the repair conversation you've been avoiding. The tool assembles a non-manipulative opening that names your part, acknowledges the other person's view, and offers a specific repair — then gives you listening prompts and a boundary reminder.

Who this is for

Anyone needing to repair a rupture in a relationship that matters — partner, family, friend, colleague — without manipulation or self-abandonment.

How to use the result

Draft the script when you're calm; let it sit overnight; revise. Most repair scripts are better delivered in person than read aloud — use it as your scaffolding, not your script.

What this tool can't tell you

It can't handle abusive or coercive dynamics. If the relationship involves risk of harm, please seek qualified support; see the mental-health disclaimer.

What happened. Specific. Neutral language.

Where you contributed, even a little. Naming this early defuses most defensiveness.

Steel-man it. The smartest version of how they see it.

A behaviour, not a promise. Something they can hold you to.