Friendship inventory
Most adult friendship problems aren't a shortage of nice people — they're a structural drift in the close layer, missing recurring rituals, and conversations stuck at logistics. This tool maps your three layers + scores four maintenance habits + returns one specific next move.
Who this is for
Adults who noticed at some milestone (kids, move, divorce, illness) that their close friendships have quietly thinned, and want a structured first look before deciding what to do about it.
How to use the result
Be honest about the close layer — ‘people I'd tell the hard thing to without rehearsing’ is a stricter test than ‘people I like.’ Re-run yearly. Pair with the reach-out script worksheet to act on the result.
What this tool can't tell you
It can't tell you whether a specific friendship is worth investing in or letting go — that's your judgement. It also can't fix the friendship for you; the tool surfaces the gap, the move is yours.